Raul H. Rivera

Harlingen- Raul H. Rivera, beloved father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and devoted husband, passed away on January 30, 2025, at Knapp Medical Center. He was born on October 2, 1946, in Tampico, Mexico, and brought joy and laughter wherever he went.

Raul married Martha Mendez on February 28, 1965, and they remained devoted to each other for life. Settling in Harlingen, they built a home where they raised their children and became active community members, forming lasting friendships. Their weekends were joyfully spent immersed in their children's activities and engaging in card games like poker and conquian.

Raul's spirit was full of life, defined by his infectious humor and unwavering love for his family. He was a devoted father who deeply cherished his children and grandchildren. His home radiated warmth and joy, often filled with the comforting aromas of his lovingly prepared meals. Raul’s passion for cooking brought loved ones together, and his signature dishes—seafood, ceviche, bistec ranchero, and breakfast tacos (to name a few)—will be forever cherished by those fortunate enough to share in his table.

Among Raul’s many passions was his beautiful front yard, where he lovingly nurtured his lemon and peach trees. His grandkids delighted in picking the sweetest peaches, savoring the fruits of his labor. A hardworking and devoted man, Raul took great pride in the Rivera home, ensuring it was always well cared for, warm, and welcoming. Family gatherings were at the heart of his life, and special occasions—birthdays, holidays, and celebrations—were always extraordinary, filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.

Raul truly embodied the essence of a devoted husband. His love for Martha was deep and unwavering, a testament to their lifelong commitment to one another. He showed his care in the most minor yet meaningful ways each day—preparing her coffee, meals, and medications with heartfelt devotion. Ever attentive, he gladly drove her wherever she needed to go and took pride in helping maintain their home, ensuring it was always a place of comfort and love.

Beyond family life, Raul enjoyed unwinding on his favorite sofa, a whiskey in hand, while listening to lovely music that filled their home with peace and harmony. He found peace in simple pleasures, cherishing relaxed afternoons watching baseball games or spending joyful days at the beach. His loyal dog, Oreo, was often by his side, sharing in these tranquil moments.

Raul's faith was at the core of who he was. His journey began in childhood as an altar server in the Catholic church, and over the years, his Christian walk became more evident through how he lived. His kindness, generosity, and love reflected his deep faith, and he became an example to others. Raul's life was a testament to the impact one can have on those around them, with his compassionate heart and genuine spirit inspiring all who knew him.

Raul is preceded in death by his father, Agustin Rivera, his mom, Audelia (Herrera) Gonzalez, stepfather, Adolfo Gonzalez, and his brother Roy Gonzalez.

He is survived by his wife, Martha, their children, Sandra Flores (Arturo Flores ), Blanca Aguilar (Pastor Joe), Raul Rivera Jr., and Rolando Rivera (Missy), grandchildren, Arturo Flores Jr., Annabelle Flores, Alyssa J. Ramos (Raul+), J.T. Aguilar (Dailly), Raul A. Rivera (Jennifer), Ashley Rivera, Daniel Rivera, and Victoria Rivera, great-grandchildren, Lilyana, Trini, and Ellie Aguilar, and Jocelyn Rivera, siblings, Victor Gonzalez (Ana+), Annabelle Roth (Rick), Roland Gonzalez (Tammy), George Gonzalez (Kristie), and William Gonzalez, faithful dogs, Oreo and Perla, and numerous nieces and nephews. 

The family, friends, and community that Raul touched will gather to honor his life and the profound impact he had on so many. Visitation will be held on February 1, 2025, from 1 PM to 5 PM, with a Celebration of Life at 4 PM at McCaleb Funeral Home, 900 W 4th St, Weslaco, TX. Raul will be dearly missed but forever remembered in the hearts of those he loved and who loved him. His memory will continue to inspire as they carry forward the lessons of love, laughter, and togetherness he instilled in them.